Ever since I was little, I’ve been fascinated by concerts. I went to my first one at 13 to see PartyNextDoor, and from that moment on, I made it a priority to see my favorite artists live. Over the years, I’ve had the chance to watch performances by PartyNextDoor, The Drums, Jhené Aiko, Peso Pluma, Bad Bunny, Frank Ocean, Brent Faiyaz, and many others. I’m incredibly grateful for these experiences, as they’ve become a cherished hobby.
What makes concerts even more special is sharing the music I love with the people I care about. Singing along with loved ones at a concert creates lifelong memories that linger long after the music fades. However, when the chance to see my all-time favorite artist, Brent Faiyaz, came up, none of my friends were available to join me. This shook me to my core, filling me with frantic anxiety at the thought of going alone, as I had always attended concerts with others. Yet, I realized this was a unique opportunity I couldn’t pass up, especially since Faiyaz rarely tours. So, I built up the courage, bought my ticket, and decided to go solo.
When the day arrived, I felt a mix of nervousness and excitement. To shift my mindset, I told myself this would be a moment of growth, a chance to prove that I could be independent and be my own best friend. My boyfriend dropped me off, having tried to buy a ticket to join me, but they were all sold out. He supported and encouraged me, assuring me I would have a great time.
As it was my first visit to the Youtube Theater, anxiety filled my mind with thoughts of getting lost, not finding my seat, and fearing judgment from those around me for being alone. Thankfully, the staff were incredibly kind and helped me navigate the venue. Once I found my seat, my anxiety began to disappear, and I could finally focus on when Faiyaz would take the stage.
Then, the lights dimmed, the bass thumped, and the crowd erupted in cheers as he opened with one of my favorite songs, “Loose Change.” At that moment, I knew this experience would stay with me for the rest of my life. Hearing my favorite song performed live felt like listening to it for the first time, with chills running down my spine. Before I knew it, the concert had ended, and I couldn’t wait to share my experience.
It turned out to be a transformative experience; I stepped out of my comfort zone, connected with my favorite music, and discovered a newfound sense of independence.
Hi Klayna,
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your blog! It’s so cool that your first concert was PartyNextDoor I loved his music when I was younger too. I also appreciated how you shared your experience attending a concert solo for the first time. The way you stepped out of your comfort zone and embraced your independence is truly inspiring!
Great blog Klayna, thank you for sharing your experience! Going to a concert solo is something I still can't bring myself to do. I always buy two tickets and end up taking one of my sisters. I can't image the feeling of relief you must have felt when the show finally started. Sounds like you learned a lot about yourself by making the choice to go to the concert solo.
ReplyDeleteHi Klayna,
ReplyDeleteI was so happy to read your story. I didn't think there was somebody out there like me. I too for the first time went to a concert by myself this summer and loved it. I'm glad you found courage to go and didn't let the nerves push you out of attending. I am glad that we both stepped out of our comfort zones! Thanks for sharing!
Hi Klayna, that is so cool that you got to see Brent Faiyaz. Especially since he is your favorite artist. The courage to go alone as well is something I respect a lot. For me, I feel like it's hard to make the most out of a concert when alone. But your story has changed my perspective and I am now inspired to do a solo concert!
ReplyDeleteHi Klayana,
ReplyDeleteThis was on my bucket list to go to an event by myself and I had the time of my life as well! I encourage everyone to do this at least once in your life. It really forces you to come out of your shell. I was always the type of person who always relied on other people for fun but after that experience I realized I don't need anyone.